He aha te pātai ki te ui i te whakaminenga i te kotiro ki te whakarite i te faaipoiporaa mo te wa tuatahi. Indian Teití

I te iti rawa i te mauruuru i tona maia, ki te mea ke atu

I ahau iti wheako whaiaro i roto i tenei rohe, engari ka ahau te maia kaupapa ki ētahi tohutohu mai i te hinengaro o te whai hua i roto i-hohonu uiuiraa: Tenei te tikanga elicits ētahi atu pārongo atu i te pātai motuhake i runga i mahi, mātauranga, me ētahi atu, a ka taea e te tahi atu tangata noa korero e pā ana ki te mea e ia e hinaaro iaKoe na kia mōhio he pēhea te tangata te whakamārama i te ia i roto i ngā o te whakatutukinga, i roto i ngā o ngā wawata, ranei i roto i ngā o te runaruna. Iti matamata - kotahi te tangata ki te okioki, e kore e te kōrero tonu. Te pupuri i te ata ki te ataata, rite ki te mea i roto i te anaanatae o te neke. Ka tīmata i korero ano, me tenei wa ka waiho koe ake pea ki te haere piri ki te parau mau e pā ana ki te tangata. Ko te reira pea e te tangata, kua homai te rite te whakahoki i roto i te tuatahi i haere, a reira, ka e takoha ki te korero ake, i to ratou whakahoki, ko te māhorahora, me te unpremeditated.

A ani i te mea e nga mea e tino faufaa hoki ki a ia i roto i tona faaipoiporaa, me te mea e nga mea e hiahiatia ana, engari e kore e whakahauanga.

Te tuku i tona korero tuatahi te hanga i te maia, me te whakawhirinaki, kia ai koe tapaea atu o koutou mahi ngaru muri. Iti matamata - Tēnā mauruuru ia mo tona outlook, ara, ki te kore koe e whakaae.

Ahakoa te whakaae koe ranei whakahē ki te whakaritenga, ki te ui aha i hanga te tangata te whai i tēnei whakaritenga.

E whakamārama ka tukua ki a koe te mohio atu e pā ana ki te tangata atu i te titauraa ia ano.

Whakawhetai ki a ia mo te tuku e mohio ana koe i Tetahi atu iti matamata - Koa mahara e te iwi e kore e mōhio o to ratou feruriraa.

Na, ko te aha i te aroaro rite te mahi-kaiwahi ai e pä he wāhi e haatauihia e mau ai te waiho i te mahi-kaiwahi. Engari ite e ahau he mea nui ki te tāpiri i te faufaa rahi ki te korero kupu nui atu i to koutou whakapae e pā ana ki tetahi atu tangata. Tenei ara e riro koe i te haumaru, ture, me kore, me te reira ano hoki te haapii i te tahi atu tangata ki te korero kawenga. Na, e te whenua he huinga, te korero e pā ana ki to koutou ake essentials me ona hiahia. Kia hāngai (i reira i rite ki te korero ki te tākuta, ki te huna i teie nei, me te mamae i muri mai. Ki te tunu pai pulkas ko te āki mo koutou heke mai, te wahine, e kore e marena te wahine kihai nei i pai ki te hoatu i te rua hoots ki a ratou. Iti matamata - Tūponotanga kei te pea te tiki e koe ki roto ki te tautohe. I roto i taua take, e kore e tamata ki te whakatū i pēhea tō whiriwhiri te mea ake matatika morare atu i ana mea. Tika mea, 'he rerekē ngā huarahi ki te kite i te ao. E mohio ana ahau i reira kia raruraru ki taku tirohanga, a tae noa toku whakaaro ai huringa i roto i te heke mai.

Engari tenei, ko te aha te mea nui ki ahau inaianei, a ite au i te reira i te mea nui mō te ki a koe te mohio ki tenei, me te tango i te whakatau mōhio'.

Te hoatu i te take mo to koutou whakaaro

Ko tētahi atu matamata iti - te Mahi koutou mahi kāinga. Mohio ki te aha e rapu ana koutou hoki i te faaipoiporaa.

I tua atu i te take nui, ano te pupuri i te ra-ki-ra, i te ora i roto i te ngakau.

E whai koe ngā ngākau nuitanga, e kīnaki tahi i te tahi? E koe e taea ki te tauturu i te tahi i te tahi ki te te tupu? Ko ia te tetahi e hiahia ana koe ki te haere mai hoki ki nga ahiahi? Ko ia te tetahi e hiahia ana koe 'a, no te hoa e haere me a, no te te rōpū o runga i te'? Ahakoa kia ai taua mea i rorirori ki te kawe i roto i te take whaiaro i roto i te hui tuatahi, ite e ahau i te faaipoiporaa whakaritea interviews te tango i te takoha i runga i rua i te taha, na ko te reira pai ki te kia kōmaka i roto i te timatanga. Te hoa o toku, i muri i ngā hui (kotahi o ratou i te rā ki te amanaki i te CCD), i paopao ki runga ki te whenua, e ko ia te poto rawa hoki i te tane. Maramarama te pouri, i te katoa i ia ki te mea i 'Ki te ko reira i taua mea nui, kihai ianei ratou i mohio ki nga wahi tiketike i roto i te tere matamua.

'Ki te haere koe ki te whakatau i te kotiro mo te wa tuatahi mo te faaipoiporaa whakaritea tauari, na kia koe e kore e wareware ki te ui i te tahi e hāngai ana, me te nui pātai ki a ia.

Ko te mea o to koutou ora, a koutou e kore e tango i tenei whakatau i raro i tetahi ahua o te pēhanga me te i roto i te hohoro. Teie te tahi uiraa faufaa e taea e koe te ui i te kotiro i roto i to koutou hui tuatahi mō te faaipoiporaa whakaritea. Ka taea hoki te ui ki a ia pātai mēnā e hiahia ana ia ki te whai tetahi ngaio akoranga ranei teitei te rangahau, ki te whakanui i tona mahi. Te tono e pā ana ki te mua, e taea anake te mahi i te mea e rua e hiahia ana, me te kore ake te whakawa mo tetahi mōhiohio anake te mea e faufaa, ko te ki te pehea, ki te mua i pai ake pokanoa i roto i te hakari ranei te heke mai, ki te kore e e t whakararuraru i te tono e pā ana ki te mua. Heoi e hiahia ana koe ki te noho te wā atu te huihui, no te te whakautu i ngā pātai ka taea te ngāwari engari te pipiki ki te hunga whakautu, ko te tino whakamātautau. E kore ahau e ite e pā ana ki tenei ranei i haere i roto i te reira, me te ae, i kite i ahau i te whakautu katoa ki te rapu i toku mata o te tirohanga, ki te mea tetahi ki whakahuatia i raro i ngā whakautu.

Whakaae ahau e taea e koe te ui i ēnei pātai katoa no te tino ko te kotahi e he tino nui whakaaro ahau te mea Kia koa te matua tuatahi i roto i te whakarite i te faaipoiporaa ti'a e te oaoa o te kotiro ka te katoa pātai ui ki a koutou tino e whiwhi koe i te pai whakautu, me ka hoki koutou e hari ki te he ia.

Ko eé i te reira i toku mata o te tirohanga ply e t tango i te reira i te tikanga. Na, kia mau ki ataata, me te ae, i te pai katoa tumanako whiwhi koe i te ora pai hoa. O) e kore ahau t whai i tetahi wheako i roto i tenei rohe. Ko ahau te whakautu i tēnei pātai ki toku mata o te tirohanga o te mea i te kotiro e titau. E kore e ui e pā ana ki tona ora whaiaro e ngā ia o mua i ngā hononga, me tona wahinetanga.

Tona s tona whaiaro ki te whiriwhiri e hiahia ana ia ki te faaite i te tahi mea e pā ana ki tona ora whaiaro.

E hiahia ana koe ki te tonu te mahi i muri i te faaipoiporaa ki te kore koe e whai ki te? Ka korero ki a koutou, ki te he ia i te hao, me te hinengaro momo i ranei momo mangere. Ko koe pai ki te noho ki roto i te ture? He tokomaha te whakarere, e tika ana ki te whakatikatika i ngā take. Fakatāutaha \mohio i taua wā. Te kotiro i whakaaro ai ratou e taea ki te te whakarite ranei pressurize i te taata ki te neke i roto i te faaipoiporaa ko nga mea katoa e arahi ki te rahunga. Na kia mohio ia tino pai ki tenei, ki te kahore koutou, ko tenei te take. Ka taea e koe te tuhituhi iho te mea katoa e hiahia ana koe i te kotiro, me te whiwhi ia ki te mea ae ranei kahore o te mea e hiahia ana koe i a ia me te moenga. Na, ko to koutou taime tenei, he aha koutou, ano, e kore e rite, me pehea e hiahia ana koe i te reira, e hiahia ana koe i te mahi pupuhi, e hiahia ana koe misionare, e hiahia ana koe hikituri, e hiahia ana ia ki te mahi i muri i te faaipoiporaa, e hiahia ana ia ki te mahi i wāna mahi whare etc.